Prisoners of Assumptions and Habits
Try to change a habit and meet the challenges this change enforces on you.
You carry a long-time owned assumption and face the challenge of letting go of it when this assumption is opposed by new facts.
As much as these assumptions and habit imprison us; paradoxically, they could be the source of our success for they may provide us with new creative ideas. Best is explaining by examples.
Best practices are best only for simple systems. They fail as the system change to a complex one, for example. Because of our sticking to the habit of doing what we are familiar with we tend to stick to doing the same even though we see that they don’t work anymore.
Be careful of the inertia resulting from old-owned habits and assumptions.
Ali Anani
The longer we own a habit or believe in an assumption, the harder it gets to load it off. We need an escape from them to dispose off them. Edward de Bono offered valuable techniques and tools to deal with habits and assumptions by challenging and escaping from them. It is not cowardliness to escape from them; more it is courageous to do so to revise them with new perspectives. On personal and business levels we need to have the courage to escape from habits of best practices and assumptions.
The paradox is that we need to escape from habits and assumptions and be courageous to do this.
Ali Anani
There are great recent examples of the values of such escapes in the banking and financial sectors. I am extracting few examples of a research that I am doing now on this thought. I dare say that the greatest creative ideas are being generated by escaping from old habits and assumptions. People are less patient than they used to. They need instant answers, services and explanations. Coupled with this is that people want their convenience by not visiting a bank. The provocative idea here is that instead of people going to banks, bank service will reach them where they are. How can this be? It is facing these challenging that led to a host of new service ideas. Take for example, the long-held assumption that banks and credit unions are like oil and water; they just don’t mix. The provocation is to make them mix. Provocation leads to tension and tension may lead to creative tension. This challenging idea made the opposites of banks and credit unions mix by finding ways to cooperate rather than compete, whenever possible. This overlapping of interest between the two immiscible institutions was possible because the parties managed to find an area of common interest and that is advertising free checking. Bancvue managed to get 65 executives from U.S. community banks and credit unions to set aside their differences long enough to cooperate on a big Fourth of July ad for free checking. This full page “Declaration of Free Checking” in the July 2nd edition of USA Today bears each of their signatures, reminding consumers that community-based financial institutions still offer accounts with no monthly fees.
Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) has been considered as an expense by bank. The challenge is to reverse this thinking and find ways to turn this expense into profit. I have discussed this issue before in two buzzes. These are:
Creativity Is Turning Cost into Benefit
A Creative Metaphor for Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)
We are living in a world that it is courageous to escape from long-held habits and assumptions.
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Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #67
True as one way of challenging assumptions is to think logically.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #66
Great story and conclusion dear Jerry. We say put yourself in somebody's shoes. You put it more elegantly by I would phrase as "put yourself in somebody's thinking".
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 5 سنوات #65
Some words and terms have different meanings in different languages. In Croatian, "common sense" actually means a healthy mindset. When I comment in English, I often use that term for explaining intuitive logical reasoning. The logical reasoning challenge assumptions.
Jerry Fletcher
منذ 5 سنوات #64
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #63
In my part of the world commonsense might be as risky as expressing courageous thoughts. The commonsense is to go with the tide even if wrong. Thank you for stirring up the discussions
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #62
#70 Thank you so much for your appreciation dear
Liesbeth Leysen, MSc.
منذ 5 سنوات #61
Liesbeth Leysen, MSc.
منذ 5 سنوات #60
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 5 سنوات #59
Or ... should I say logical reasoning.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #58
I answer replied to your comment in a private message.
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 5 سنوات #57
It's not courage ... it's common sense. :)
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #56
Joyce \ud83d\udc1d Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee- a farmer does his best to have good crops and crop yield then the wind blows and destroys everything for him. Yes, we need to do our best and when we do we have to accept that the winds don't blow in our favor always.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #55
This is a thorny issue and you are brave enough to speak up so openly. I salute you for your courage.
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
منذ 5 سنوات #54
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 5 سنوات #53
I am not quite sure that it's possible. One of the assumptions based on the literal interpretation of scriptures is related to environmentalism and the lack of supporting the environmental policy. To use nature to our own advantage as written in the Bible justifies exploitation of the earth. Faith can be wrong or right depends on what we do with it.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #52
David- your comment reminds me of a habit in Sudan during my visits there few years back. They have wedding and some parts they are conducted in halls wherein passersby may walk in. They are sort of open-door weddings. My host in Sudan noticed my desire to witness the habits of marriage there and then he said let'us walk in. I said surprisingly "but we aren't invited". It doesn't matter. We walked in to just "live the experience". The people noticed that I was a guest and they were so kind and generous. They insisted on me to stay longer. I believe that when we share comments publicly it is kind of an open-door invitation. Yes, good manners should prevail like the behavior of any guest, but also because we need the rubbing of ideas to generate more ones I consider my buzzes kind of "open-door invitation".
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #51
Sound and to the point. Only one observation- mothers are unlike any other being. Our trust in them keeps our faith in them. I like your analogy and answers.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #50
A vary famous Arab writer described an Egyptian belly dancer who refused to go to bed with anybody as "in fire and she doesn't burn". The dancer was orphaned when she was young with both parents passing away and was left with five younger brothers and sisters. She became a belly dancer to feed them and educate them, but never "sold" her self to anybody. I don't know if her values ever would have ever allowed her to become a belly dancer, but also her values kept her away from going any further. Yes, we need anchors in life and values are our anchors dear David.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #49
`Faith may change- values don't. Maybe this sis a general conclusions from the discussions here dear Lada \ud83c\udfe1 Prkic. Yes, what is based on changing facts will have to change as well; If faith is based on reasoning that is proven wrong by facts and research then how could faith be the same
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #48
I am going to reveal you something I do. I don't know if is right or wrong, but that's my own personal "netiquette". When I make comments on a buzz, I normally don't read other's comments. For me, is like being invited to your home (the writer of the buzz), so I just keep my attention to what the writer had to say in his/her buzz, and answer accordingly. It doesn't feel right to me to get mixed in conversations you (or the writer) have with other "guests". Only if the writer invites me, like you do many times, then I might comment other's comments. It has the risk to repeat what another said, but in the other hand, if two or more people have the same opinion about the same issue without being biased by other's comments, well, that's a confirmation. All this, to give an explanation about your words " I got shocked that your comment here is in line with mine previous response. Even we used the same words (fruits, for example)."
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #47
The easy answer for "how much faith can we have in a human being?" is none. Sooner or later we will be disappointed. We get disappointed with ourselves too, don't we? So, how are we not going to feel the same way about others? But, we can have faith in a human value that a human being would consistently show. As a simple example, I would have faith in my mother's love, even if she is doing something to me I am not that happy with. In a second thought, I will have faith that she does it based on her love to me, even if she is wrong, or even if I don't understand it. I know you have children. When you had to correct hem, you showed them love, even if they cried when being corrected. They could doubt you as a human being, but not about your fatherly love.
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #46
I am happy to fully agree with your words "The value of "do unto others...." is timeless and in no need of revision." That's the kind of parts my Frankenstein is made of
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #45
Dear Ali, to your words " What if the "me" values are contradicting with my group or company values?", the answer is simple and tough at the same time: Changing the values is not an option, so you need to change your group or company. In the end, when you turn the light off and you are on your own, it is with yourself the one who you need to be at peace with. We say in Spain, Mejor solo que mal acompañado (better on your own rather than in a bad companionship)
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 5 سنوات #44
Ali, you ask great questions. I actually don't like to comment on topics about religion and faith, and my question was purely hypothetical. You asked are faiths changeable. I am always fascinated when a person applies rules of logic and critically examine science textbooks, but at the same time has an irrational bias towards ancient assumptions based on faith. I am aware that religious beliefs do not go hand in hand with logical deduction, but our world changes rapidly. New technologies and discoveries shed a different light on dogmatic statements, demanding new answers and consequently - change of faith. Harvey said in one of his comments that "our faith is what we rest on that we are 'doing the right thing'." I think that doing good and the right thing doesn't require faith but own moral beliefs as natural human traits.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #43
This is a challenging comment Harvey Lloyd "Faith i believe in this context is values we hold to be true to "me", that in the face of adversity "me" will hold too, regardless of the intrinsic or extrinsic consequences". What if the "me" values are contradicting with my group or company values? This is a serious struggle and I wonder how do you deal with it? David Navarro L\u00f3pez will also have his wisdom here to share with the readers.
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #42
I really appreciated your insights and can only add a finer look at the line between science and faith. Faith i believe in this context is values we hold to be true to "me", that in the face of adversity "me" will hold too, regardless of the intrinsic or extrinsic consequences. Science tells the what of our observational analysts it offers no why, and certainly no way forward within humanity. Science does offer material convenience and security in the environment. Again, it does not tell us how to engage with it. I would consider my faith a Frankenstein faith also, but for different reasons. As much as Martin Luther separated from the church so long ago, we have rejoined politics, church and religion. In the face of that yes i am a Martin Luther Frankenstein faith. Faith is something we hold against the values, principals or religious beliefs as we engage with life. Regardless of the potential for self. I may loose the promotion through faith in my values. Faith tells me i will be happier if i don't compromise my values along life's journey. The value of "do unto others...." is timeless and in no need of revision. What is needing revision from time to time is what is acceptable for others to do to me that i pass on. It is wisdom that sheds light on our execution. The value itself has held true for thousands of years. Great discussion and again appreciate your inputs.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #41
So, it is a loop and continuing one too. Revise and adapt. Your comment here reminds me of the Blue Ocean Strategy. WE can apply it to assumptions. For example, what parts of the faith to eliminate, what part to reduce? what parts to increase and what parts to create? I am getting excited about this possibility.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #40
So are my beliefs and faith in you my Spanish friend David Navarro L\u00f3pez. We are very close and this is reflected in your comment. I am reading each part of your comment and responding to it. I got shocked that your comment here is in line with mine previous response. Even we used the same words (fruits, for example). This brings a question- when we have faith and trust of somebody do we get "synchronized" without planning for it? The degree of synchronicity between us is evident by comparing this comment of yours David and my previous one. I am eager to here what Lada \ud83c\udfe1 Prkic will say.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #39
Indeed and I concur with your writing "The problem is, humans, cannot live without any of them. Just like diabetics in front of a bakery, we are salivating for things that can be poisonous for us". This is the question" can we have faith in something that can be poisonous to us? Shouldn't we question it? Your lovely comment David reminds me of some plant seeds. They are sweet from outside and very bitter inside. This is to encourage animals to eat the sweet part and discard the left biter seeds. This way the plants are able to disperse their seeds. Should we also do the same? Shouldn't we discard the part that poison us? So interesting comment yours is my friend.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #38
Your knowledge and contributions reflect richly in your comment David Navarro L\u00f3pez. Your comment is intriguing as it leads the reader to think. You wrote " "blind faith" is needed, both as much as credible, both as much as fallible". This is the paradox because I believe that when we have unquestioned faith it produces its negative effect. We followed in faith many political leaders and then later we found that we were doing that blindly. The politicians that were our idols became our most disrespected people. Even today like president Trump and you see the faith of him divided by many parties. The question for me how much faith can we have in a human being?
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #37
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #36
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #35
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #34
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #33
Well said and portrayed.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #32
I am the one who is grateful to you for taking the time to write your wisdom and share it with others. You remind me of The Animal Farm and what they may destroy once they reach the power. Then I remember Gandhi and his faith. Yes, the choice is ours and every person should then review the impact of his/her faith on others.
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #31
You delve into the deeper conversation of faith to an individual. In all faith it should promote humanity as an absolute, even those who are different in faith. As to conversion, i would state that the faith we carry is faith we live by and succeed or fail by. Each person must review their own self awareness of faith and be able to stand within the framework when the storm is at its peak. This is truly personal choice. The reason it is called faith is that i can only prove that it works for me. I cant prove it before anyone else except through how they view my execution. Even then it is still personal choice. My concern is not how man has dismembered faith into so many secs but rather who is writing our faith if God is not. More in the philosophical realm than religious. Hard science and clearly not political leaders are suited for labeling morality for us all. With Nietzsche it was this question that he predicted nihilism would become rampant. I don't think he missed the mark by far. Living life from a moral set provided by authority not of this world is what builds societies. We have historical proof of when we leave this thought what happens and we have proof of what happens when we do serve this higher authority. We need only look at those who rose to power and built or destroyed. Great discussion and thanks for allowing me to comment.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #30
You remind me of the expression "lost faith". The question is also is it "lost and found"? How do we define faith? Is faith in God being a Moslem disapproves the faith in God by a Christian? Which faith to follow? Is it a learned faith? A genetic one? These are questions that made me write my previous comment in response to Lada \ud83c\udfe1 Prkic. People who convert religion- what faith prompted them to do so? I am considering your statement "I don't believe that the truths of faith change...". Do we consider conversion of faith as part of the truth in faith? I don't claim I have the answers, but I am thinking deeply about these questions.
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #29
#37 I know i am edging in on a conversation but i would like to attempt an answer to the question brought forward. "what about assumptions that are based on faith, and whether they should be subjected to periodical revision, validation and even substitution if needed. Is the one who escapes from such assumptions a courageous?" Each day we walk out of the door and engage with others, as much as we are doing here, what are the faithful principals one follows within the engagement? Do we make these up as we go along, or do we have them instilled upon us by our upbringing or maybe they are natural outcomes of genetics. Our faith is what we rest on that we are "doing the right thing". This is very subjective to each of us, but it is a faith of action. To me faith is a common understanding of humanity and the right to be a individual. But my individuality can not stress yours unless it is mutually agreed upon. Our faith is the guiding light we use within engagement. I don't believe that the truths of faith change, how we execute around our interpretation is always fluxing. Love your neighbor as yourself may change in execution, but the charge of faith is to always consider this standard in all engagement. Even if we determine we cant make the engagement happen. Very challenging question and one, here in the US, is being challenged. http://www2.hawaii.edu/~freeman/courses/phil360/04.%20The%20madman.pdf Frederic Nietzsche new that "We had killed God" His next question was who then will write morality? This is the question i pose also, who is writing our faith today?
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #28
Thank you dear Lada \ud83c\udfe1 Prkic shall be. I believe that we discretely review our faiths. How fixed can faith remained constant in a rapidly-changing world. This is a great question and deserves a buzz from you. Are faiths changeable? All of them, or part of them? What is the cost of adhering to a wrong faith? So much to think about. May be encountering the truth of our faith needs special courage.
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 5 سنوات #27
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #26
Thank you my friend Edward Lewellen for your generosity. I appreciate it.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #25
Thank you dear Harvey Lloyd for sharing the buzz with such a thorough comment.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #24
Superb comment and I shall reference it in my next buzz. You are right to write "Once the left brain says no, the right brain will never even consider possibilities:. This is terribly sad because it negates natural flow. If we investigate ants and bees and how they search for new sources of food they diverge first to find more possibilities and then converge to make a decision what source is optimal. With logical thinking divergence with all its possibilities are gone.
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #23
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #22
The left right brain and our education system here is an abomination. Our drive to score above some created line of excellence has lead us to grow only the left brain except in the most focused of our creative folks. Once the left brain says no, the right brain will never even consider possibilities. This is sad, reaching for the stars is now full of calculations of past discoveries. Your discussion here about old habits die hard, is appropriate. Only through creative thinking, within chaos, can we find our way past the bars of these habits. We need creative thought. Risky thought, risking our left brain calculations, stretching them to the breaking point.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #21
I am glad you enjoyed and commented on the buzz, Harvey. Your comments reminds me of my previous buzz "opposites on the Edge". I, like you, want the opposites to interact and get the best of this interaction. The tendency to separate opposites such as materialism and spirituality is wrong and I agree with you that they are the other sides of the coin. This separation thinking extends to many areas in our lives. Just one quick example is the right brain and the left brain. It shall be best to make the best of each and not position them as "enemies". I did a test myself today by trying to generate service ideas using the interaction of the two brains. I shall share part of my findings in my next buzz. It is always a pleasure to read your comments and learn from them.
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 5 سنوات #20
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #19
The feelings and impressions are mutual my friend. You know you stand core places in my heart and mind.
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #18
CityVP Manjit
منذ 5 سنوات #17
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #16
With all honesty I expected this buzz to provoke you to write a buzz on this buzz. I look forward to reading yours later today CityVP \ud83d\udc1d Manjit
CityVP Manjit
منذ 5 سنوات #15
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #14
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #13
I shall not suffer from the inertia of thanking you dear Debasish Majumder for not only expanding the discussions, but also for sharing generously the buzz. Yes, what goes in the environment of business is changing and so they also bring new and creative changes, only if we think about them.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #12
Yes, you are a lateral thinker dear Tausif Mundrawala for you see what goes on in the sides and not only what is in front of your eyes.
Debasish Majumder
منذ 5 سنوات #11
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #10
Dear Tausif Mundrawala- my opinion is as ususl and your comments always speak wisdom. This comment is no different. This is reflected in your thorough thought "... the entities need to collaborate in order to create a space for a consumer segment not explored before and can acquire a market share in an amicable way". This is exactly what I wanted to communicate in this buzz. Businesses have to change their habits in order to find new market shares. You said it very nicely.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #9
Dear friend David Navarro L\u00f3pez- you said it perfectly well in one line that could be easily expanded into a full-fledged buzz. I mean "Habits, assumptions and beliefs can be of some use, but they all have an expiring date". What a great way say it!. Yes, they do have an expiry date and you very skillfully reasoned this. I simply love your mind and how you think my friend.
David Navarro López
منذ 5 سنوات #8
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #7
Thank you Matthew Evans and I am glad to read a comment by you.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #6
I am also in total agreement with your comment Roberto De la Cruz Utria. I dare say that finding products that challenge our routines and habits shall be the most rewarding ones. I shall as I indicated in my previous comment addressed to Clau expand on your comment and hers. Thank you.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #5
Yes, my dear friend Clau Valerio and so well expressed in your comment "The advantage of a habit is that it is automated, in such a way that without thinking that it is executed (without motivation and without willpower)". We tend to follow the path of least resistance and habits provide this path. It is an energy-saver, but not always for our benefit. In lateral thinking we energize ourselves by using provocative questions that may pull us out of our comfort zone. It is energy-demanding and the easiest way is to fall back to old habits. Your comment encourages me to write on more detail on this topic. Thank you for writing a mesmerizing comment..
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #4
Well-said my friend Pascal Derrien "Make change on a free will basis seems difficult whereas change with no other alternative to choose from is surprisingly easy". I am in full agreement as evidenced from my previous comment addressed to Jean. Sometimes, choices make us rigid and fragile.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #3
Thank you dear friend for contributing such a rich comment. The quotes you mention are apt and relevant as they add value to the buzz. Yes, it takes courage to step out of our comfort zones and be wiser and more understanding of life. No wonder you have this courage because you voice your thoughts very clearly>. Isn't surprising that we need courage to be better and still prefer in the "backyard"? Simply, I am moved by your comment.
Ali Anani
منذ 5 سنوات #2
Thank you dear Savvy Raj and synchronicity between both of us is on the rise
Pascal Derrien
منذ 5 سنوات #1